Here's a simple question...

Lets say strawberry is your utmost favorite fruit....

and this is not just an ordinary strawberry, but a rare strawberry, its very rare that u only get to eat it once in a lifetime.....well actually it depends... this particular strawberry is your priority...the 1 crucial thing u want in life and never let go.....this strawberry could be the love of your life, money, career, your dream, ur family...something that is very important or dear to your heart and soul...

would you eat the cake first and put the strawberry aside or the other way round?

Of course, everyone will say yes to strawberry...
but at times....because u want to savour the best part at the end...u delay eating the strawberry...wanting the climax to be at the end of whatever ends...

such as...U know that guy/girl is the best thing that could happen in your life...but somehow, u keep whatever u feel inside...because U dont want to have that kind of commitment yet....Or maybe u dont want to mess up and lose him/her...so in result...u find comfort from other people or other places....maybe its easier...who knows...

Or...U know U want that job...but because its too early, and your XP is not up to that level yet...and that U want to experience other things just to make sure before you go for the one thing u really want to do in life...in result U find other jobs to obtain more skill and experience...and the strawberry job is under KIV tray....

Or maybe...U want to get married...and have a family...but U want to have a stable career first...before building your family...just to make sure that U dont have to worry about your family future in terms of financial....so U dont propose to her, simply because U want to give your family the best in life...

Its all depends...but whatever your strawberry is...It keeps on changing with times...
due to influence ..people U met...events...things U do...just about everything...

now the simple question become more complicated...
so what would U eat first?
Strawberry? perhaps the cake?

whichever u take first...U have your reason..

and I hope it is a reasonable one...

I know at times...THAT strawberry is a bit intimidating...y not? It could CHANGE one's life...maybe thats Y so many including me, afraid to pick and consume that strawberry first....

but Y do we have to be afraid...If it is a constructive strawberry, then Y not? If thats what U want, then Y not?

For me, I see clearer now...I have my answer.


P.S. Seize the day peeps.. the world is getting older...and we're all dying...

MK