Have a lovely Valentine's day

It's Valentine's Day...

Despite the controversy about Valentine's day....many still celebrate Valentine's Day...

Purely to celebrate one love toward one another...to remind us how special we are...and when one love is pure and true...there would be no discrimination....

It is the perfect day to do something special..

It is the perfect day to profess your feeling...

...the perfect day to sing that original love song...

...the perfect day to buy a flower...

...the perfect day to plan a date...

......perfect day to buy a bracelet...

......perfect day to propose...

It is the perfect day to be hopeless romantic...without feeling guilty...

Because St. Valentine's gives us an excuse to share what the world needs.... LOVE....

P.S. Love is just a dream, unless you share it with someone...better yet with some one special....

Skip this...

Ive lost interest in novels, korean dramas, and love songs..they are just so annoying...they are just a bucnh of stuff which bored me to death...at least these past few months...i bought 2 new books which arent even half read...."mary stay out all night"....u wait till i have time for you...."love songs"...ok at least i still love them the same...

I dont know what interest me anymore....i guess none....

I was bloghopping from one unknown blog to another unknown blog, just to see what i havent see somewhere around the world, and i stumbled upon a blog which is full of craps...of course not for the writer...but I just hate posts which talks alot about love...how love sucksss....and how they rewrite quote about love....bla bla bla...they are definitely living with love and in love...but then they she said love sucks...what do you mean? sudah lah kamu....

Yeah I know....there are ups and downs....but...life...is it all about love?

Love is not a rocket science...they are so simple...but it is so complicated because human being made it complicated...so love is complicated...;p Our feeling is complicated....our emotion made us complicated...

I know it is very important...but...I just hate reading about it...so cheesy, and it gives me goosebump ha ha... thats a first....ha ha...

Id talked alot about love before...but I never get goosebump...i love talking about love...it is so mindblowing...yet nowadays...it gives me goosebump...OMG...theres something wrong with me...Im so weird...

P.s. where have all the magic and sparks gone....

Oh no wonder, its february....

To do list...

Men!!!

Is that sooo hard to do?

Love

Someday, if God's willing, i will grow old....

and when i am old...i may have problems with my body...i may have walking difficulties...or hearing difficulties...i may not speak as clear...or laugh at your jokes...

I will grow tired as time flies, wrinkled and sagged and not as young, and may be less desirable..not as cheerful..not as fit as i am today...

Someday...There will be moree beautiful girls...and i might envy them for their youthfulness...and i may be tripple more insecure...and paranoid...

And someday, i may not be able to stay out long enough without feeling the coldness of the night seeping into my bone which will hurt tripple more...I wont have the energy i have today...

I may loss a tooth or two..my eyesights may not be as clear...long and shortdistance...I may have little hair by then...who knows...but knowing these...of course i will try my best to keep up...


But it will be the same with you Love, whoever u are....that someday...u may have the same issues...We....human... will grow old...

and we, will not be as lovestruck as before...not as innocent...not as desireble...
But one thing i am sure of...growing old with someone u love from the moment u said your vow...is one of the most satisfying thing to achieve in this world....because u know u can count on that person.u know so much about that person inside out...good and bad...through tough times and those haapppy times...u have bittersweet memories to remind each other...to laugh and to cry together...

And I hope very much...that this kind of love does exist...the kind of love that will last forever...i may sound foolish...i hope im not.

10 relationship markers to help you know if he or she is The One:

If there are no perfect partners, how can you know whether to stay or go?
Here are 10 relationship markers to help you know if he or she is The One:

1. When you're together you feel like you've come home.

2. You feel like your partnership was meant to be, as if kissed by destiny.

3. In your communication with each other there is a rapid "knowing" of what each of you means.

4. You have a shared mission in life, perhaps a cause, a career, or the creation of a family life.

5. When you're together the world seems like a better place.

6. Your mood is elevated when you're together. It's not necessarily passion or excitement, although that's there too at times.

7. When you look at him/her you see a part of yourself that's been missing. Perhaps it's her assertiveness or his joy of adventure. But it's something that when added to your life, makes you feel more complete.

8. Being together makes you more hopeful about the future you are creating.

9. You can be more authentic and fully yourself around your partner.

10. Being together makes each of you work harder on overcoming bad habits and becoming more loving people.

If you are experiencing six or more of these markers, chances are you are matched well. Over time you can work towards having all of these qualities. Couples who have lasting love find that their relationships get closer and better over time.

Bottom line: your chances of finding The One are better than you think. So go out there and start looking. Love almost always comes in a surprise package that opens up in marvelous and magical ways.


Copied and pasted from here :p

Let's see...."The 50 Universal Truths About Men?" hmm...

written by BOB GRANT

1. Why should I remind you that "I love you?" I already told you once.

2. I'll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.

3. I hate arguing with you. I'd much rather find a compromise.

4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.

5. When you speak softly, I can't help but listen.

6. I need to be told "no" sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.

7. Please don't ask me how you look unless you're willing to trust my answer.

8. My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.

9. When you're happy with me I can't help but want to please you.

10. If I don't feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.

11. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.

12. Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.

13. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.

14. If you can't stand up to me when I'm a brat, you're too weak for me to open up to when I'm upset.

15. Sitting quietly next to me after you've made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. You'll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.

16. You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I'm considering leaving you.

17. I don't read minds. Remember, I'm not a girl.

18. You may know fashion, but I wish you'd dress to please me, not other women.

19. If I'm losing my hair, it's not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?

20. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I listened to you talk about what is important to you.

21. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.

22. You look hot in a dress.

23. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel you're my mother.

24. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.

25. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch.

26. I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you're married!?

27. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.

28. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.

29. Being respected is more important to me that being loved.

30. I want every guy to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don't let yourself go.

31. When I'm upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important that what you say..

32. I hate it when you minimize/ignore my compliments. It makes me what to stop giving them.

33. I'm more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much?

34. I don't always know how I feel. That's why I don't tell you.

35. I don't need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.

36. If I do one thing and say something contradictory - Go with my actions, that will always tell you what's in my heart.

37. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something. (Like a favor).

38. I really don't want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.

39. If I don't share what I'm thinking it's because I don't think you will listen without interrupting.

40. I don't like to argue and I don't like to guess what's wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.

41. I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it's a Freudian thing.

42. Don't ask me, "Are you going to wear that?" when I'm already dressed.

43. A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.

44. If you don't believe you're pretty, you won't believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it.

45. It isn't how much you weigh; it's that your body is proportionate which is so attractive.

46. Sometimes I have weird and strange thoughts. I don't take them seriously and I don't want to share them with you (or anyone).

47. Sometimes you really don't want to know what I'm thinking. See above.

48. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.

49. I don't remember everything about our relationship and that doesn't mean I don't love you.

50. I need some time to myself to calm down when I'm upset so that I don't say something I will regret.

OKaayyy....Thanks for the information Bob...=b....

♥ ^_^

I miss someone badly...
and im not suppose to feel this way...
I dont know how...
My heart just think by itself...
and my head dont even have the time to think and put some warning to my heart...

But I chose to live the 'now'...
not in the future nor in the past...

so I will cherish this moment...

present for HER...<3

on Valentine's day...
guyss...if u have no idea what to buy...maybe this post is for you...


expensive gifts...
1.A CAR...
hehe even a kancil also can if she dun have a car la..
what kind of girl who doesnt want a car right...
even a non driver also wantt onee...

2.LG handphone...
woooo...if u miss her all the time y not buy a new hp right...
so u can call her all the time...
and i recommend u to buy hp with 3G...so u still can see her from a HP screen...
LG ada 3G ka?? mmm.. SONY ericsson also can lar

3. Apple Ipod...=b
yayyy...now u can share ur favorite song with her...
remember that song?? your first dance with her??

4.Notebook..
where u can both hang out at CB and online together with 1 small LT...

5.Engagement Ring???
Bila lagi...Valentine's day is the best time to propose...
because u have an excuse to be that sentimental and romantic guy...
because thats what Valentine's day are for...to show someone that u love them...


not very expensive gift...
6.Ticket to Rihanna Concert
OOO how i wish i can go..i almost imagine...
I want to watch rihanna sing 'Take a bow and live ur life' in Live Concert.....
hmmm...maybe next time...

7.approach some1 u love...
u never know, maybe she's been waiting for u to approach her....
go make that first move...make it happen...
if Valentine's mood dont mke u do that first move...
maybe u will never...or maybe u have other date...or maybe...or maybe...
bla bla bla...

8.talk to each other...
w/out fighting or w/out defending yourself...
especially when u think there's no sparks between u and ur gf anymore
maybe this is the time to remember all the good things in the past...
and try to rekindle ur relationship...

9.candlelight dinner...
to a nice restaurant...atmosphere maybe?

10.d-i-y candlelight dinner...
makesure u do it nicely and must be romantic yaaa...
everything u do, d-i-y...at least u make that effort....
if she cannot appreciate that and complain everything u do...
and makes u stress out...

maybe its time to do 8# instead..
or if she still complaint bring her to the cinema and watch a nice movie...
she cant complain...
but if everything u do failed??
...i dont know...try harder...

Neway....Chocolate and Flowers also can...with a little bit of creativity...
u sure make her smile and cry a little...=)

check out for this website for more tips..on

V for??

V for Valentine?

How to make yourself happy on valentine's day...

...especially when u'r single and desperate!!..=(

I say its not difficult...
go to a florist shop and book a bouquet of roses and write a romantic message just for your love one, yourself..^_^

"Dear XXX"
I have love u since the first day i saw u, butterflies flutte.....bla bla bla.."

REMINDER: remember to put under the name of.....

"MADLY-IN-LOVE-ANONYMOUS...."

never put under the name of the guy that u admire...in case u really forgot that it was actually from urself , at least u dont embarrass urself by calling him and say how grateful u r & how u feel the same since XXX...


how can u be happy when u know u were the sender ?
this is the trick...
book in advance, like super early advance...few months before Valentines....
U will be surprise how the world seems so alive when u know someone out there really deeply madly in love with you...HAHAHA*raise eyebrow sexy kind of way =v*
if u remember...at least u have a fresh roses on your coffee table right?

V stand for VICTORY!!!

Been 2 weeks...2 longgg weekss....
Not like there's anything happen or whatsoever btwn us...so what...

So I try my best not to think of him...but the universe trying its best to remind me of him...
Damn hard...I feel like Jonathan in 'Serendipity'...

thats sara and jonathan

dun mind me... there's nothing magical between us...No fantasy at all...no fairy tales..and THAT,i make myself believe..budu oo kan...but i hope there is...so sad...i dun even think fate or destiny have something to do with this...

but who cares ... I CARE!!!...
I know what i feel...and im pretty sure what he feels...maybe im wrong....(FYI...most of the time i was wrong...but sometimes...i guess i was not....~whats my point...~)okay...dun take me away from my lala land yet...cos i really really reallyyyy miss him...

i miss him...

Love...as said by these people...

Love isn't a decision. It's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved, it would be much simpler, but much less magical.
Trey Parker and Matt Stone, South Park, Chef Aid, 1998

Life's greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved.

Victor Hugo (1802 - 1885), Les Miserables, 1862

No one can understand love who has not experienced infatuation. And no one can understand infatuation, no matter how many times he has experienced it. Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

Will you love me in December as you do in May, Will you love me in the good old fashioned way? When my hair has all turned gray, Will you kiss me then and say, That you love me in December as you do in May?
~James J. Walker


Loving is never a waste of time. ~Astrid Alauda

Life only starts when love comes. ~From the movie Bill of Divorcement, 1932

You learn to like someone when you find out what makes them laugh, but you can never truly love someone until you find out what makes them cry.
~Author Unknown

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet. ~Plato

It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you.
~Author Unknown

It's easier if I can let go of this Love which may never be mine...Everyone knows that Love is hard to get rid off... ~Unknown

Can you see that Im in Love...You makes me feel sad and lonely when you are not around. ~Unknown


The greatest pain that comes from love, Is loving someone you can never have. ~ Author Unknown


Stupid Love makes me think too much ...I almost lost my mind...too much love makes my head spinning...Not that I dont want lov e ...it just where too much...Like when u drink too much water, u got drunk and u feel like throwing out....owwhh its alittle bit like that....damn.....Okay I talk noncense.....I should be in peace...and aliveeee ...haha...=)

About Love...or whatsoever u think this tag is about...

Have no idea whatsoever to blog...so i do this tag instead...tag by nyonyok

[01] Do you ever wonder what your ex is up to?
- never..

[02] Have you ever been given roses?
- nope.... sad but true

[03] What is your all-time favorite romance movie?
- Serendipity

[04] Had a Long Distance Relationship?
- nope

[05] Do you believe in this saying-What goes around comes around?
- Nope...but i think sometimes its true

[06] Do you want to get married?
- yeap but not yet

[07] How many kids do you want to have?
- well ... i hve no idea

[08] Whats your favorite color(s)?
- White

[09] Who was the last person you held hands with?
- no one

[10] Do you believe in love at first sight?
- not really

[11] Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
- yeap

[12] At what age did you start noticing the opposite gender?
- in kindergarden...budak2 kann

[13] Do you like anyone?
- yes...

[14] Do you know someone who likes you?
- i think so

[15] Do you love anyone?
- ya

[16] Do they know you like/love them?
- no idea , maybe

[17] Why did you and your most recent ex break up?
- simply because im not in love...

[18] When did you two last speak to one another?
- its been along time ago

[19] Would you get back together with your ex?
- Nope

[20] What comes to your mind when you think of love?
- think of the person i love

[21] Is there anyone who knows you inside and out?
- God the only one who knows me inside out

[22] Tag anyone?
- Inden and willie

One-sided conversation

Sandra: How was your day?
Larry: Okay.
Sandra: What happened?
Larry: The usual.
Sandra : What do you feel like doing this weekend?
Larry: I don't care. What do you want to do?
Sandra: Do you want to invite our friends over?
Larry : I don't know...Do you know where the TV schedule?
Sandra : (upset) Why don't you talk to me?
Larry: (Stunned and silent.)
Sandra: Do you love me ?
Larry : Of course I love you. I married you.
Sandra: How could you love me? We never talk anymore . How can you just sit there an dsay nothing. Don 't you care?

~At this point, Larry would get up and go for a walk. When he came back he would act as if nothing had happened.~

I took the trouble to copy this from "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. "by John Gray.

I believe that every women, involved in a one-sided conversation at least once in their live.... or maybe twice or possibly more than two times....

It doesnt have to be with your husband...but with any guy....
But right now...im focusing the 1-sided conversation btwn you and the one that u kind-of-like or admire...the one that u want to have relationship with...hahaha..

Anyway....As said by John.."When a man is pulling away is not the time to talk or to get closer. Let him pull away. After sometime he will return. He will appear loving and supportive and will act as though nothing has happened. This is the time to talk."

Sometimes I wondered why they dun give more effort to make a conversation fun...because as far as i know....they are the one that started the conversation(okay sometimes)...but when u are starting to get into the conversation....they pull away...sometimes...they just cut or stop the conversation without any sign of goodbye, sometimes u just have to rush what u want to say because if u talk slowly then he wont hear what u have to say and other may caught u talking to no one...and believe me....its embarrassing... another way of how to make a girl feels rejected...

Okay ...maybe there have a lot going on in their mind...billss... money...car....what ever it is, hey doest mean u have to treat us that way...

The power of women...

"Behind every successful man is a woman."

"Behind every great man , there stand a great woman"



I mean, what do you think....Of course! Man's success have something to do with the woman, his wife , she is like his advisor, his mentor, his inspiration...his everything....without her, what is he ...

Man, have to have something to hold on to in order to move on and go to the next mile ...
His family, his wife is the reason....

Some memorable quote that I want to share in here....~~

Jim Braddock: Max, my wife Mae.

Max Baer: You are far too pretty to be a widow.

Jim Braddock: That's not nice, Max. Not nice. Come on.
[starts to leave]

Max Baer: On second thought, maybe I can comfort you after he's gone.

Joe Gould: Hey, I said shut your goddamn mouth, you punk!

Mae Braddock: [Mae throws her drink in Max's face]

Jim Braddock: Sorry. Send me the cleaning bill.

Max Baer: Get that boys? Now he's got his wife doing his fighting for him!

Jim Braddock: Yeah.
[pause]

Jim Braddock: Ain't she something? ^_^*

Dear Guyssss....
Betul ka tidak niiii????

Dear Girls (from us guys)...

*Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."

*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

*You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.

*Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.

**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

P/S ~ WHATE VER...hehe...fun reading though

~MKuts~

This is what I feel

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